Most guys nowadays are totally clueless when it comes to attracting girls. The fact is, some guys THINK they know what they’re doing, but when what they do doesn’t work, they keep trying the same thing, only harder!
Here are a few key items to learn when attempting to meet the ladies. These may not be what your mom taught you, but then again, you’re not trying to pick up you mom, are you? Some guys think of these at “techniques”, but in reality there are strategies and items that will put you above your competition.
If you say, “this just isn’t me”, that fine, but I’ll ask you to look at your current success with the ladies, is it where you would like it to be? If not, maybe you should listen a bit, OK?
1. Use a touch of Arrogance, some may even call it cocky.
Arrogance and confidence fall in the same category, but they are just a tad different. Girls dig confidence with some arrogance thrown in. The more beautiful the lady, the better it is to use this kind of attitude. Most guys don’t because they feel inferior to her beauty, you need to show this trait doesn’t phase you. CAUTION: When you see a cute girl, hesitation is your enemy! Approach her, talk to her, joke around with her. Be confident with a touch of arrogance thrown in.
2. Be Observant of her (and your) Surroundings.
I once heard you can tell a lot about someone by looking at what’s around that person. Once you make your approach, you can comment on some little things that other guys may not notice, but since you did it will stand out. For instance, comment on her shoes, maybe her earrings. If she’s sitting by a window, comment on the flowers outside. Just say something and engage in conversation. It really doesn’t matter what you say, as long as you say something!
BUT, there’s a way do to do this. Giving her compliments is the same as every other guy who thinks he has game. Throw in a comment that she’s confused about. For instance, you can say, “I like your shoes, they look really comfortable.” Or “You know what they say about girls who where those kinds of earrings, don’ t you?” Those two comments open a WORLD of conversation. BUT, you MUST know what to say afterwards as well. Just be interesting and keep the conversation going.
3. Make her feel comfortable with you.
It’s up to YOU to make the girl comfortable with you. If you just constantly sit there and stare at her may give her the “creeped out” feeling, which is what you DON’T want. Try this little technique, get her up and lead her to a different part of the place you’re in, even if just for a minute or two. Don’t be afraid to offer your hand so you can walk together. Get really bold and take her to a whole different venue! This gives her the feeling of spending a LOT more time with you because you’ve been to different places together.
If you current are a bit uncomfortable with dating or approaching ladies, you MUST get a handle on this for yourself and your self confidence. But it all starts with YOU WANTING to do it!
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